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Building Patience with Creative Activities

Patience is a superpower that can transform your approach to your dreams, relationships, and personal growth. I wrote about the cultivation of patience in Blog #22 The Cultivation of Patience and How It is Essential to Achieving Long-Term Goals. It is still a great read and I always find, for myself anyway, that revisiting a particular topic always involves seeing it in a new light and gaining a broader perspective of it.  I encourage to to go back and read Blog #22, then dive into one or more of these activities to hone your patience and gain a valuable skill that can help you live your life more intentionally and with more joy.


Here are five creative activities that can help develop patience:


1. Puzzle Solving (Jigsaw Puzzles or Brain Teasers)

Why it helps: Solving puzzles, especially complex jigsaw puzzles or logic-based brain teasers, requires focus, strategy, and patience. These activities involve working through challenges step by step, with no immediate payoff until the solution is reached. As you piece together the puzzle, you learn to stay persistent and embrace the process, even when the solution seems elusive.


How it develops patience: Puzzles often involve trial and error, and the satisfaction comes only after sustained effort. The longer and more difficult the puzzle, the more patience it demands. You develop a sense of calm as you work through frustration, and over time, this patience can spill over into other areas of life.


2. Photography (especially Film Photography or Darkroom Processing)

Why it helps: Photography, particularly with film or manual processing, teaches patience because the results aren't immediate. In film photography, you need to carefully compose each shot, develop the film, and wait for the final prints. The process of capturing moments, processing negatives, and fine-tuning prints requires slowing down and being methodical.


How it develops patience: Unlike digital photography, where you can immediately review your shots, film photography is an exercise in delayed gratification. You can't simply take as many photos as you like without thinking—you must plan each shot, often with limited exposures. The entire process, from capturing the image to developing the film, teaches you to wait, refine, and be patient with the results.


3. Calligraphy or Hand-Lettering

Why it helps: Calligraphy and hand-lettering are precise arts that demand control, attention to detail, and steady hands. Each letter or stroke takes time, and creating something beautiful requires repetition and practice. Whether you're using a brush or pen, you must slow down to carefully form each character, creating a rhythmic flow that can be meditative.


How it develops patience: The deliberate, slow pace of calligraphy contrasts with today's fast-paced world. It takes time to build muscle memory, perfect letterforms, and achieve the smoothness of strokes. With each project, you learn to slow your thoughts, embrace small imperfections, and appreciate the progress over time rather than rushing to finish.


4. Painting and Drawing

Why it helps: Painting and drawing, especially when creating detailed or large-scale works, require patience because the process is often slow and involves multiple layers. Whether you're sketching out a concept, layering paint, or refining details, the creative process tends to unfold gradually, and the final result comes from careful, deliberate effort.


How it develops patience: Painting and drawing encourage mindfulness as you focus on fine details, technique, and composition. With painting, especially in styles like realism or abstract, each brushstroke builds on the previous one. You may need to wait for layers of paint to dry, or take time to fix mistakes, and each adjustment can take time to perfect. Similarly, in drawing, refining shading, textures, and proportions is often a slow process. Over time, you learn to embrace the "slow burn" of art, where progress is measured in increments rather than instant results. This teaches patience as you develop and refine your craft.


5. Woodworking and Pottery

Why it helps: Both woodworking and pottery involve physical craftsmanship that requires time, precision, and patience. Whether you're carving a piece of wood or shaping clay on a wheel, the materials require time to transform into the intended form. You also need to allow for drying or curing processes, often waiting days or even weeks before moving on to the next stage of creation.


How it develops patience:

  • Woodworking: Working with wood involves a series of careful steps—selecting materials, measuring and cutting, sanding, and finishing. Each stage demands precision, and mistakes can be costly in terms of time and effort. The slow, methodical process of shaping and refining the wood teaches the value of persistence, as it takes time to achieve a polished, finished product. Additionally, woodworking often involves waiting for glue to dry, finishes to cure, or joints to set, all of which require patience and careful planning.

  • Pottery: Pottery is similarly a slow and tactile art. From molding the clay to firing it in a kiln, each stage requires waiting. Shaping clay on a wheel, for instance, takes practice and patience as you work to perfect the form. You can’t rush the drying and firing processes, and if something goes wrong in the kiln, you may need to start over or rework the piece. The unpredictability of how clay will behave during firing can teach you to be patient with mistakes and the process of trial and error.


Both woodworking and pottery demand a balance of careful attention, gradual progress, and acceptance of imperfection—all key aspects of cultivating patience.


Patience is a skill that grows with practice, especially when you give yourself the chance to embrace it! It’s about making peace with the journey toward your goals and understanding that progress happens in small, deliberate steps. By shifting your focus away from the end result and actively seeking joy in each part of the process, you’ll find that patience becomes a more natural and rewarding part of your everyday endeavors.


Thanks for reading the blog! Be sure to check it out each week on Tuesday.  Next week, I’ll be writing about how engaging in creative activities can promote and cultivate advanced cognitive abilites.  Before you go…I wanted to extend a warm invitation for you to join my artist’s newsletter. It’s a great way to stay updated on everything happening in my creative world—whether it’s new blog posts, shop updates, or exciting workshops and events. By signing up, you’ll get a front-row seat to all my latest projects, behind-the-scenes glimpses, and special announcements. I’d love for you to be part of this journey and share in the creativity! Get it HERE.




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