#58 A Fresh Lens on Life: Gaining Perspective
- Melissa Rolfes
- Jun 3
- 3 min read
The more life we experience, the more we realize how much our mindset shapes everything. And sometimes, all it takes to shift the entire feel of our world is a simple change in perspective. If you've ever felt the need to see things differently—to soften your inner dialogue, to rethink an old story, or to step into a version of yourself that feels lighter and more aligned—this is for you.
Why Perspective Changes Everything
Life has a way of becoming patterned. We fall into habits of thought, automatic reactions, and long-held beliefs. But when we choose to shift our perspective, even slightly, something beautiful happens. We start to see with fresh eyes. We become more open, more creative, and more compassionate—with others and ourselves.
Perspective gives us the opportunity to:
Catch ourselves in autopilot thinking.
Move through challenges with more balance and clarity.
Unpack biases and limiting beliefs.
Cultivate a growth mindset.
And even gently reinvent ourselves into someone more rooted, more joyful.
The Creativity Connection
Here’s something powerful: Perspective and creativity go hand in hand.When you look at something differently, you’re already being creative. And when you tap into your creativity—whether through writing, painting, problem-solving, gardening, or simply daydreaming—you begin to expand what’s possible in your mind and in your life.
Creativity can help you:
Reframe your thoughts.
Reflect on what really matters.
Shift your self-talk from critical to kind.
Step into someone else’s shoes and develop empathy.
Reevaluate draining relationships.
Embrace change as a path forward.
Let go of the comparison trap.
Care for others while also caring for yourself.
Practical Ways to Gain a New Perspective
Here are a few ideas to try as you stretch into fresh thinking and creative renewal:
Reframe your story. Instead of “I should have,” try “I learned.”
Take time to reflect. A quiet walk, a journal, or a solo coffee can work wonders.
Turn your inner monologue into a gentle one. Speak to yourself the way you would a dear friend.
Practice empathy. Looking at things from another’s point of view can change everything.
Notice what lifts you up—and what doesn’t. Some relationships may need new boundaries.
Embrace change. It’s a sign you’re growing, not breaking.
Stop comparing. No one else is walking your path.
Find small ways to help others. Sometimes the best way to heal ourselves is to lift someone else.
Take care of your body and spirit. Rest is not a reward—it’s essential.
Let the little things go. Not every annoyance needs your energy.
Learn something new. A skill, a hobby, a mindset.
Practice gratitude. Even for the messy, imperfect moments.
Accept yourself. All of you.
Get curious. Ask yourself questions. What if? Why not?
Think bigger than before. Your dreams didn’t come with an expiration date.
Treat experiences as just that—experiences. Not definitions. Not judgments. Just moments that come and go.
Be creative. In whatever way feels good to you.
One Thought Can Change Everything
There’s so much power in how we see the world—and how we choose to rewrite the stories we’ve been telling ourselves. You don’t need to change everything. Sometimes, the shift starts with a new thought, a fresh lens, and a willingness to explore what else might be possible.
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